lights of paris

1st blog but plenty of experience behind the blog.
i've been active in the lifestyle for over 4 years. I'm 47 year old single, straight male. I know we are a dime a dozen.

I started out as a single, straight guy looking for M/F/M threesomes. I played with 3 different couples. In the 1st two couples the women were great, sexy and loved the attention I gave them. but the guys may not have been completely straight. both guys became a little jealous after a couple of encounters.
the third couple was great but shortly after i meet them i started dating a woman not in the lifestyle. this was about 3 years ago.

a year or so later I meet another women who was interested in the lifestyle. We started out swinging with couples then moved on to threesomes with straight guys.

This relationship last around 2 years. this relationship ran its course and i was single again. I was a single, straight guy again. I was involved in four gangbangs and although these were great. I knew one of the these women from my swinging days as a couple.
There was something lacking in these gangbangs that i found in threesomes. I also didn't want to go through the hastle of finding couples on-line.

i guess that i missed being in the lifestyle as a couple. i enjoyed being in a threesome with my GF much more then being the single guy in M/F/M threesomes or the gangbangs.

which bring me to the title of my blog. How can you keep them down on the farm after they've seen Paree?

I miss the lifestyle. do i not date anybody who is repulsed by or cannot handle the lifestyle? in my opinion the vast majority of women cannot handle the lifestyle.

I've been dating a woman now for the past 6 plus months. she's wonderful in many ways but I don't know if she can handle the lifestyle.