meet my third couple at about the same time i started dating a woman. by the time i meet the 3rd couple i was ready to take a break from threesomes and date someone exclusively.
they were a good, experienced couple but it took 3 meetings and they wanted me to be exclusive with them. which meant if i started dating anybody or meet with another couple, they would not play with me. which I could understand.
We meet once but she was high maintenance.
The sex was good and he was straight but i was ready to move on and try the relationship thing...
I took about a 1 year or more break from the lifestyle. these experiences as a single, straight guy were eye opening and all in all, wonderful experiences. some couples were more prepared for swinging with straight men. the women were more comfortable with it then the men, in my opinion.
i learned that i should never swing with a couple where the guy is bi or bi-curious. It seems that a bi-sexual guy wants more then to see if wife/gf get fucked or to join in fucking his wife/gf. this bi guy will be disappointed in the lack of attention he will receive.
i learned a lot by being on the other side of the couple experience. That being I was now with a woman in the lifestyle who brought straight guys into m/f/m threesomes and couples.
i learned how and why a straight guy is invited into m/f/m threesomes.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Thursday, January 7, 2010
2nd threesome
my 2nd three was that same winter after i was first separated, which was about 4 years ago.
I meet this couple on-line. we first meet up for a meet and greet. we got along great and she was beautiful. i remember she had such nice soft skin. very fair complexion.
next meeting was at there place. they had a hot tub and had the Playboy channel on. we had a great time. to long ago to remember much except how beautiful she was. She really had a great time. She called me at work and set up the next meeting, which was at my place.
They came to my place and she started taking off my clothes before she even had her coat off. he brought over Viagra this was the 1st time i ever used Viagra. found out i could cum and still stay hard. her and i fucked for hours. he never joined in the fun, just watched.
after that visit he became jealous and that was the end of that couple. She kind of got in a little deep. She would call me at work and wanted to set up another meeting. i found out how he really felt by his posting on there profile. He wrote that they wanted to meet another man for a threesome, the last one only wanted a two-some.
Again, live and learn.
I meet this couple on-line. we first meet up for a meet and greet. we got along great and she was beautiful. i remember she had such nice soft skin. very fair complexion.
next meeting was at there place. they had a hot tub and had the Playboy channel on. we had a great time. to long ago to remember much except how beautiful she was. She really had a great time. She called me at work and set up the next meeting, which was at my place.
They came to my place and she started taking off my clothes before she even had her coat off. he brought over Viagra this was the 1st time i ever used Viagra. found out i could cum and still stay hard. her and i fucked for hours. he never joined in the fun, just watched.
after that visit he became jealous and that was the end of that couple. She kind of got in a little deep. She would call me at work and wanted to set up another meeting. i found out how he really felt by his posting on there profile. He wrote that they wanted to meet another man for a threesome, the last one only wanted a two-some.
Again, live and learn.
going back and blogging about past swinging ;)
My first swing experience was about 4 years ago. I was recently separated, coming out of a sexless marriage.
On a swinger site I made contact with the male half of a couple. he wanted me to meet him and his girlfriend at a local bar. he wanted me to pretend that I didn't know him and just start talking to his girlfriend.
we hit it off fairly well. he thought she would want just a back rub the first time we meet. he believed that she would want nothing more then that the first night.
We all went back to my place and it took her about 30 seconds before she wanted more than a back rub.
We all had a great time that night. this being my first swinging experience, certainty was a great way to start out.
She lost count of the number of times she came. I stayed hard all night and never came.
How we got from the couch to the bed was a blur and I don't remember if we talked about limits. I did stress that I was straight and I found out later that he was bi.
about a week or two later. i meet up with them at there place. we had a great time again but i felt something change with him, while i was fucking his girl friend. The jealous bug had hit him. So I never meet them again after that night.
Live and learn i guess.
On a swinger site I made contact with the male half of a couple. he wanted me to meet him and his girlfriend at a local bar. he wanted me to pretend that I didn't know him and just start talking to his girlfriend.
we hit it off fairly well. he thought she would want just a back rub the first time we meet. he believed that she would want nothing more then that the first night.
We all went back to my place and it took her about 30 seconds before she wanted more than a back rub.
We all had a great time that night. this being my first swinging experience, certainty was a great way to start out.
She lost count of the number of times she came. I stayed hard all night and never came.
How we got from the couch to the bed was a blur and I don't remember if we talked about limits. I did stress that I was straight and I found out later that he was bi.
about a week or two later. i meet up with them at there place. we had a great time again but i felt something change with him, while i was fucking his girl friend. The jealous bug had hit him. So I never meet them again after that night.
Live and learn i guess.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
what sexual adventures await in the future?
should I just throw caution to the wind and come out and say that I want to get back in the lifestyle with the new GF?
once the Rubicon has been crossed - there is no going back.
She says that she wants me to get hard again and that she wants to get f**ked again, this is while we're f**king.
once the Rubicon has been crossed - there is no going back.
She says that she wants me to get hard again and that she wants to get f**ked again, this is while we're f**king.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
lights of paris
1st blog but plenty of experience behind the blog.
i've been active in the lifestyle for over 4 years. I'm 47 year old single, straight male. I know we are a dime a dozen.
I started out as a single, straight guy looking for M/F/M threesomes. I played with 3 different couples. In the 1st two couples the women were great, sexy and loved the attention I gave them. but the guys may not have been completely straight. both guys became a little jealous after a couple of encounters.
the third couple was great but shortly after i meet them i started dating a woman not in the lifestyle. this was about 3 years ago.
a year or so later I meet another women who was interested in the lifestyle. We started out swinging with couples then moved on to threesomes with straight guys.
This relationship last around 2 years. this relationship ran its course and i was single again. I was a single, straight guy again. I was involved in four gangbangs and although these were great. I knew one of the these women from my swinging days as a couple.
There was something lacking in these gangbangs that i found in threesomes. I also didn't want to go through the hastle of finding couples on-line.
i guess that i missed being in the lifestyle as a couple. i enjoyed being in a threesome with my GF much more then being the single guy in M/F/M threesomes or the gangbangs.
which bring me to the title of my blog. How can you keep them down on the farm after they've seen Paree?
I miss the lifestyle. do i not date anybody who is repulsed by or cannot handle the lifestyle? in my opinion the vast majority of women cannot handle the lifestyle.
I've been dating a woman now for the past 6 plus months. she's wonderful in many ways but I don't know if she can handle the lifestyle.
i've been active in the lifestyle for over 4 years. I'm 47 year old single, straight male. I know we are a dime a dozen.
I started out as a single, straight guy looking for M/F/M threesomes. I played with 3 different couples. In the 1st two couples the women were great, sexy and loved the attention I gave them. but the guys may not have been completely straight. both guys became a little jealous after a couple of encounters.
the third couple was great but shortly after i meet them i started dating a woman not in the lifestyle. this was about 3 years ago.
a year or so later I meet another women who was interested in the lifestyle. We started out swinging with couples then moved on to threesomes with straight guys.
This relationship last around 2 years. this relationship ran its course and i was single again. I was a single, straight guy again. I was involved in four gangbangs and although these were great. I knew one of the these women from my swinging days as a couple.
There was something lacking in these gangbangs that i found in threesomes. I also didn't want to go through the hastle of finding couples on-line.
i guess that i missed being in the lifestyle as a couple. i enjoyed being in a threesome with my GF much more then being the single guy in M/F/M threesomes or the gangbangs.
which bring me to the title of my blog. How can you keep them down on the farm after they've seen Paree?
I miss the lifestyle. do i not date anybody who is repulsed by or cannot handle the lifestyle? in my opinion the vast majority of women cannot handle the lifestyle.
I've been dating a woman now for the past 6 plus months. she's wonderful in many ways but I don't know if she can handle the lifestyle.
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