going back and blogging about past swinging ;)

My first swing experience was about 4 years ago. I was recently separated, coming out of a sexless marriage.

On a swinger site I made contact with the male half of a couple. he wanted me to meet him and his girlfriend at a local bar. he wanted me to pretend that I didn't know him and just start talking to his girlfriend.

we hit it off fairly well. he thought she would want just a back rub the first time we meet. he believed that she would want nothing more then that the first night.
We all went back to my place and it took her about 30 seconds before she wanted more than a back rub.
We all had a great time that night. this being my first swinging experience, certainty was a great way to start out.
She lost count of the number of times she came. I stayed hard all night and never came.

How we got from the couch to the bed was a blur and I don't remember if we talked about limits. I did stress that I was straight and I found out later that he was bi.

about a week or two later. i meet up with them at there place. we had a great time again but i felt something change with him, while i was fucking his girl friend. The jealous bug had hit him. So I never meet them again after that night.
Live and learn i guess.